Recall our discussion about comfort zones and the changes looming in my life. Well, hear ye, hear ye…
After nearly 30 years of living in Somewheres, VA, in 30 days, I will be moving to the Dallas, Texas area. Since revealing this news to my family and friends, I’ve received responses that range from shock to support/glee/excitement to downright confusion. Here are a few of the most popular questions I’ve gotten, followed by my responses.
Why in the world are you moving?
Because I’m a human being, an adult, a grown woman, and I have the right to vacate my premises.
I’m so happy for you! What inspired your decision?
Thank you. Honestly, I’m ready for a change in my life. It really helps that the area I’m headed to is affordable and has a great cost of living, as well as an abundance of jobs. Also, I have personal goals that I’d like to see through and I think being in a less expensive area may assist me in those endeavors.
But why Texas? It’s like the Wild West down there.
Well, no, it’s not. It’s different from the metropolitan area we live in, sure. But I fell in love with the area when I visited and always had in the back of my mind to move there one day. I think it’s beautiful there and we’ll see what life will be like for me.
Won’t you miss your family?
Of course I will. I love my family to pieces and pieces. But I’m also pretty excited about this new, impending chapter in my life. For the first time, the idea of moving away isn’t causing the butterflies that permanently reside in my belly to implode. I’m actually OK with this choice, and my family has been nothing but supportive. And if it stinks over there, I’m headed back home without fail.
Uh, do you have a job lined up?
No, I don’t. I’ll be starting the hunt when I get there.
You must have thousands of dollars saved up then.
How will you LIVE?
I’ll be staying with a friend temporarily while I look for work. Eventually, when work comes, I’ll get my own living arrangements.
I’m terrified for you. Have you seen the news lately?
I have. And, honestly, it gives me pause, too. Sadly, however, bad news isn’t relegated to one area of the nation or the world. I can only pray that I stay safe and make good decisions about the places I go and the people I see.
Do you have family down there?
No, but I have friends who are like family that live down there.
This is just really shocking.
It is. Change can always be shocking. And you always imagine–at least I do–that people will stay where they are forever.
We’ll miss you.
I can’t describe how I’ll miss my friends and family and will miss living in an area where I know the shortcuts to the shortcuts. I’m starting over and without a known tribe around me. But I’ll be ok.
Well, it was nice knowing you.
I’m not going to the moon. I’m just some states over. There’s FaceTime, Skype, social media, the phone, and this blog, which won’t change just because I’ve changed my address. If anything, my new life will be healthily updated right here on This Square Peg. It’ll be an entirely new story line of square pegness, actually, in this new area, so we’ll have a lot to talk about.
So, yeah. I’m moving. I’m moooooooving!
Have you moved before? Whether stateside or to another country? How did you adjust? Details, please, in the comments.
4 Replies to “30 Days.”
This is such a massive dose of inspiration, well done for kicking Madame Comfort Zone (MCZ) to the icy cold curb, now I feel so inspired to embrace change, and just do it afraid, regardless. 😀
I’ve made this decision twice in my life and things worked out fine in the end. There were times when my doubts set in, but what gave me the confidence to persevere was the massive sense of peace that I felt once I decided.
Change is great, one has to let go of the old to receive the new. Yeah?
You’ll be fine, best wishes!
Thanks ever so much, lady!
Indeed, change is absolutely great and necessary to welcome the new/replace the old. I won’t lie: I’ve had my panic attacks here and there, I’ve had my moments of solid breathing and reminding myself that I’ll be all right. And I’ll be all right. 🙂
Thanks again, and here’s to a swift kick in MCZ’s hind parts. Ha!